9 signs You’re With a Real and Faithful Man

All girls have their own idea of the perfect man- the kind of man they hope to find one day, the man they can spend their entire lives with. So some girls will prefer tall guys, some prefer short. Some want a guy who they can have fun with, while others just want someone to share their deepest darkest side with. But no matter what kind of physical attributes or personality traits you prefer, one thing that remains an essential requirement for all girls is ‘loyalty’ and there are no two opinions about this!

So if you want to assure yourself of your man’s loyalty, look out for the following signs in him:

1. Intimacy isn’t just 20 minutes under the sheets

You know that guy who doesn’t really have much to talk about, won’t ever plan out any unique romantic dates for you and the only time you’ve ever seen him happy and excited beside you is when you’re getting intimate. And the minute that’s over, when he’s done what he was here for in the first place, he’ll return to being the cold, disinterested person that he is.
Yeah, I’m sure you remember him but your current man is nothing like that! He doesn’t just want to fast forward everything to an hour in the bedroom and even when he does, it’s followed up by even more love and affection. An hour of intimacy is usually followed up by an entire night of cuddles and long talks.

2. You have an all access pass to his house

No one likes interruptions in their life and no one wants to grant permanent and unrestricted authorisation to their one safe haven to just anyone they meet. So if your partner was confident enough to hand you a copy of their apartment’s keys without you even asking for them, then this is a sure shot sign of their loyalty towards you.

3. He remembers to call and text you at the most random times

He’s been really busy all day at work. You don’t even expect him to take the time out just to talk to you, but that’s exactly what he does! In the middle of everything, when he’s buried in work from head to toe and tensions are running high, he’ll remember to let you know that he’s thinking of you. It can be a simple message or just a 2 minute call but he won’t end a day without talking to you, at least once.

4. You’re the only person he has eyes for

Now we’re not saying you should go all crazy judging him for this one point. Sure, he will notice the people around you, he’ll even joke with you about that really hot girl from across the table just to see you get a little jealous. But when all is said and done, when all the fun and games are over, and when he’s sitting across from you with his eyes fixed, just listening intently to what you’re saying, you’ll feel so sure about the fact that he’s never looked at another girl the way he looks at you.

5. He’s told his friends all about you

He doesn’t panic at the sight of his college friends when you guys run into them at a random party, he doesn’t introduce you to the people around him as a new friend he made, he doesn’t avoid putting up a Snapchat story with you just to hide your secret romance and he definitely does not feel any shame in admitting his feelings about you openly, at least to the people who matter to him.

His friends know absolutely everything about you, from how you guys met to how you managed to make him fall head over heels in love with you.

6. He doesn’t mind doing anything for you

He doesn’t have old-fashioned and discriminatory views about gender roles. He won’t mind cooking up an amazing dinner for your date night or helping you change your sheets. And when you’re having the laziest day and feel like doing absolutely nothing, he’ll be around to help you complete all your work.

7. He’s interested in anything and everything about you

He doesn’t want to find just this one common hobby or interest that you both share and then work out all of your conversations and free time around that one thing. No, that’s not how he goes about this relationship! He takes a genuine interest in all of your likes and dislikes and wants to know all the deepest, darkest thoughts you have in that beautiful mind of yours.

8. He has nothing to hide

He doesn’t have a passcode on his phone and he won’t give a second thought to leaving his phone with you for any reason at all. And this one time when you needed to see some pictures from his Facebook account, he didn’t hesitate for a single second before giving you his password. Now it’s not like you’re some psycho stalker who’ll take these opportunities to go through all of his personal conversations, but it feels nice to know that even if you did, he wouldn’t have anything to hide.

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9. He never takes you for granted

In all this time that you’ve been together, you’ve always felt like a priority to him and not just an option. If you already made plans together on the same day that his friend has decided to throw a party, he won’t ditch on you last minute. If he has to make an important life decision, your opinion will be a major contributing factor. And if you ever reach a point where life just stops making sense, when you just stop being happy, and when you can’t help but be a little irritated with everyone you meet, he’ll know how to make you feel better, how to bring you back to life. Because ladies, this one guy is right here for you in the good times as well as the bad.

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5 Reasons why Long-distance will make your Relationship Stronger

Alot of studies have showed that long-distance relationships are probably the toughest kind of relationships, the ones that actually require you to give in every single thing you’ve got, the ones that can turn you into the one of the most frustrated people on the planet and the ones that can actually make you start questioning your sanity at times where you just can’t begin to understand why you ever agreed to put yourself though this.

But at the end of the day, when all is said and done, when all your heart and soul has been put into this one part of your life, you will know and be proud of the fact that your relationship has come out a lot stronger and has become more resilient than an average relationship could ever be.

Here are 5 reasons why:

1. Trust is an essential part of your relationship from the very start

You’re living miles away. You can’t even meet each other every week, let alone every day. The only access you have to their everyday life is what and how much they will tell you about it. And they are the only source that can explain and help you understand their relationships with all the different people in their life.

So the moment you agree to being in a long-distance relationship with them, you are essentially agreeing to trust them about every single aspect of their life, to trust that they’ll always tell you the complete and honest truth and to put your faith in the fact that this person you’re willing to do so much for won’t cheat or hurt you, even when you’re not there to keep a check on them.

2. You learn to appreciate your partner more

It really, really sucks to live so far away. You will have some horrible days when the only thing you feel like doing is to run away from this life of yours and just go hide yourself in their arms. You’ll be willing to do just about anything only to see them once, to feel the warmth of their skin against yours for just a single moment.

And this is exactly the reason why when you’ll finally get this one person that you had desired for so long, when you’ll finally get to hug them tight and spend your entire day with them doing the most random stuff, you’ll learn to appreciate all of it even more. You’ll value each and every minute that you have together and there will rarely come a point in your relationship where you’ll start taking things for granted.

3. You get to have more actual conversations

When you’re in a long distance relationship, the only way to take your relationship further, to actually get to know your partner better and to maintain a constant connection with them is through technology where the most you can do is to sit from across a screen just to look at their face and talk to them for as much time as you possibly can.

So the greater part of your relationship’s strength will actually rely on the conversations you share, not on the amount of physical intimacy that you can enjoy together. And while you talk endlessly on the phone for hours, you’ll see the topics range from how your day was to what your deepest fears have been. In between all the meaningful conversations you’ll share, you’ll come to realize that there is so much more to your relationship than just physical attraction.

4. It’s a chance to test the foundation of your relationship

In those long days, weeks and even months of waiting just to meet each other again, one thing will definitely become very clear- whether this actually is ‘it’, whether this person that you’re going crazy about really is worth it. When you are apart for so long, you get the opportunity to reflect rationally upon your relationship without getting swayed by how incredibly sexy your partner looks or how your heart starts beating so much faster the minute they even hold your hand.

A lot of things come into perspective and you have a strong realization of what your relationship is really based upon.

5. You know if your love can last this long distance, it can last almost anything in the world

Not every person in the world can handle the complications and stress of being in a long distance relationship. And if you’re one of those few people who have been managing to take it further for so long, if you still love your partner as much as the very first day even while staying apart for such long periods, then there’s no problem in this world that you two can’t solve together!

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Reasons your relationship may be suffering

1. Assuming someone else in them

Don't forget why you fell in love with them in the first place. Do not try to make them someone they’re not and do not try to find someone else in them. So you had a rough breakup and you kind of miss the good things your ex did for you, DO NOT make your better half do those things and DO NOT expect them do be like them. Love them for who they are.

2. One lie affects it all

Lying is never the best thing, a minute lie to do something good is alright but remember that it always finds a way to get found out. Be real with your partner, if you’ve made a mistake just confess it out. If you lie about one thing, you’re going to have to lie about another thing to protect the first lie and you’ll soon find yourself surrounded by a fortress of lies and it does not take an army to break.

3. Been around them

Your presence is very important to your partner. Always be there in their endeavours, their accomplishments, their failures, never be absent during their ups and downs. As soon as you stop being there, they’ll stop expecting you to be there, and then the distance will increase. Always be just a call or text away.

4. Some relationships just don’t work out

If you’re doing everything right and you still feel like it’s not the same as it used to be, don’t blame yourself for it. Some relationships are just not meant to be. As hard as this might be to read, not everything in life is meant to be. Some things are better off left alone than to waste the rest of your energy and still be empty inside. 

5. Lack of Communication

This is one of the biggest reasons for people to start disagreeing on things day by day. Never, and I mean NEVER, let a communication gap develop between the two of you. A healthy relationship requires a healthy amount of talking, back and forth. Show a keen interest in what they have to say and make them hear about your side of the story in return. This is one of the easiest things to do and one of the easiest things to lose as well.

6. Much Expectations

The squabbling and fighting increases when you start expecting a little too much from your partner. Expecting from your better half is a very normal part of a relationship but never test them on it. Make sure to keep your expectations realistic and not to burden them with the things they can’t do.

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